Early Pregnancy Home Birth Plan

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More Information:

Please, visit our birth planning page as well

which has additional birth education.

The Birth Plan:

This plan is specific to early pregnancy (under 20 weeks) home birth.  Note that different aspects of the delivery will be different for the different gestational ages.

Things to Have:

__support person!

__phone (to call 911 if necessary)

__heavy maxi pads (no tampons)

 

 

For babies about 10-19 gestational weeks:

__large sheet of tinfoil (or plastic wrap or wax paper)

__several large old towels

__ small fish net (or plastic bowl, colander or ladle)

__latex gloves (dish or medical gloves)

__small Tupperware container with lid (or ziplock baggie)

__saline (contact solution)

__clear shot glass or small vase (with saline solution: this helps restore your baby’s fullness and can magnify his or her shape so you can see him or her more clearly)

__tweezers or toothpicks

__if you are planning on bringing everything that you deliver to the hospital, including as much of the placenta as you can, you will need a large, gallon sized ziplock baggie (and a non-see through grocery sack or bag to place that in)

__special jewelry box or other special box for a coffin for your baby to be placed in

__plenty of water to stay hydrated

__music

__do not use a douche or enema to help labor progress

__soothing birth items:

__a small square of pretty gift tissue with a little note that you can flush

__be prepared for a possible ER visit

 

Babies about 4-10 gestational weeks:

  • Things to Expect:

__labor (bleeding) should begin within two weeks of the death of your baby, but could take longer.  Natural induction could include drinking raspberry tea.

__it will be very unlikely that you will be able to identify or retrieve your very tiny baby (flushing is very likely inevitable)

__name your baby

__include a pastor and friends and family if you wish.  See the “Professionals/Volunteers” link at stillbirthday.com for additional services to consider.

 

 

After the Birth:

  • If you leave to the ER:

 

__bring a fresh change of clothes with you.

__Have a photo you brought placed with your baby.

__Have a blanket or other special item left with your baby.

__ask if you will be able to take your baby home with you, or if you can have your baby returned to you after any genetic testing is done.

__bring a teddy bear or other item that you can hold on the car ride home.

 

 

 

At Home:

 

__Have someone planning on spending the night with you. Perhaps consider having a friend spend the night with you, so that your husband can go home, prepare the house, and rest.

__You will still have lochia (the remaining blood from inside the uterus, which may be shed for the next 1-3 weeks).

__Watch for signs of postpartum depression (PPD) or secondary vaginitus.

__Remember to pray and ask others for help and for prayer.

__Be easy on yourself, your body, and on your recovery.

__Talk to God, your husband, and trusted mentors and friends about all of your feelings.

__*Visit stillbirthday.com for “Farewell Celebrations” and for “Long Term Support” resources.

 

 

Babies about 10-19 gestational weeks:

  • Things to do Before the Birth (while laboring):

__set up your bathroom as the delivery room.  Fold edges of foil to make a large tray, and place this on your counter.

__pray.

__call friends and family for support.

 

 

  • Things to Expect:

__Sometimes bleeding will begin, and then completely stop (for hours or even days) before resuming.

__bleeding should not fill a heavy maxi pad sooner than one hour at any time during the labor.

__the placenta is between the size of a pear to a grapefruit, and will probably be expelled in grape sized pieces.

__very small, fleshy, flaky pieces of discharge are probably pieces of your uterine lining.

__every time you use the restroom, once bleeding has begun, you may expel pieces of placenta.

__it is easier to retrieve everything that is being expelled, to look through and identify your baby, if you hold the small fish net or colander underneath your vagina in the toilet bowl, than it is to allow everything to first be caught in the toilet and attempt to retrieve it after (because everything may be slippery)

__labor will likely peak right before the birth of your baby, at which time, for the first hour postpartum, bleeding may increase, but you should not fill a heavy maxi pad sooner than a half hour, during the first hour (after the first hour, bleeding should begin to taper off).

__know that your baby may not be born intact.  He or she may be very unrecognizable.

__if you baby is born in his or her amniotic sac, he or she may appear to look very similar to the pieces of expelled placenta.

__when your baby is born, place him or her on the foil tray you have set up on your bathroom counter.

__don’t use toilet paper or Q tips to dry baby, as it may stick and pull at your baby’s delicate skin.  Instead, use tweezers, a toothpick, or your finger, and very gently move your baby away from the small puddle of blood, until he or she is more dry.  Know that your baby will lose his shape very quickly after birth.

__Utilize all of the special plans you have, including saving mementos, holding your baby.

__name your baby, take photographs

__when you are ready, place your baby in the small Tupperware container and then in the special box.

__invite a pastor and friends and family to join you after the baby is born (please consider that it might not be appropriate to show them your baby).  See the “Professionals/Volunteers” link at stillbirthday.com for additional services to consider.

 

 

 

After the Birth:

  • If you leave to the ER:

 

__bring a fresh change of clothes with you.

__Have the photo you brought placed with your baby.

__Ask if baby can be swaddled in the blanket you brought (or just leave the blanket there)

__ask if you will be able to take your baby home with you, or if you can have your baby returned to you after any genetic testing is done.

 

 

At Home:

 

__Have someone planning on spending the night with you. Perhaps consider having a friend spend the night with you, so that your husband can go home, prepare the house, and rest.

__You will still have lochia (the remaining blood from inside the uterus, which may be shed for the next 1-3 weeks).

__Watch for signs of postpartum depression (PPD) or secondary vaginitus.

__Remember to pray and ask others for help and for prayer.

__Be easy on yourself, your body, and on your recovery.

__Talk to God, your husband, and trusted mentors and friends about all of your feelings.

__*Visit stillbirthday.com for “Farewell Celebrations” and for “Long Term Support” resources.

 

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